Thursday, August 12, 2010

"Plans"

Plans: A plan is typically any procedure used to achieve an objective. It is a set of intended actions, through which one expects to achieve a goal.

God always has plans for our lives! We always make plans for our lives! Our kids make plans for theirs! So true they make there own plans. My son Carlos Ivan is not getting married as planed so he decided to come back to Puerto Rico because God changed his plans. Well that really is good or not? The truth is it’s his life and although I had plans for him he has to make his own plans and his own mistakes.  Tough ha but so true and as mothers we forget that.

Last week a lady in the gym was celebrating her 50th wedding anniversary! She came up to me and expressed how happy she was to be married so many years to the same man!, I felt bad yes that is the true I told her “well I had planned to be a lifetime with my first husband!” Yep that was my plan so true. I had planned to live happily ever after! Yes that was my plan and I thought God’s plan for me.

Well my then husband father of my 2 children did not have the same game plan! He forgot that marriage is with one person and decided to be with other women and did not respect me or the institution known as marriage!  He tolled me that he didn’t love me and was in love with my friend and leader of the church so they decided to commit adultery right in the same church her husband and children and my family were members.  It was a big ordeal for me and very painful situation.  I always forgave him because I thought it was what the Lord wanted.  Guess what no way! That is not what the Lord wants! The Lord has better plans for you and me! When I finally got that in my mind and in my spirit I decided to change plans and do better for myself I got out of that bad situation and the Lord changed completely my plans!

The Lord loves me so that he sent a good man into my life and my kids’ life that respects me and loves me just as I am!  I even forgot how many years I was in that bad situation because the Lord changed it all! I did go through other bad moments but the Lord has been with me all the way!

This is the first time I write something about it and I feel better and whole. The plans of the Lord are always for the best! Ladies we do not have to live in a life threatening situation and no one has the right to disrespect us and treat us as trash! You are a treasure! You are a Princess of God! 

Soy Una Princesa Guerrera de Dios!

Be blessed! God has great plans for you!!